The following progressive muscle relaxation exercise will help you to become completely relaxed. If you do it in bed when you are ready to sleep it will help you to fall asleep easily.
Progressive Muscle Relaxation (PMR) Exercise
Read right through these instructions once before you begin. The muscles that we will be focusing on in order are:
1. Hands, forearms and biceps
2. Feet, calves, thighs and buttocks
3. Shoulders, throat, neck, face and head
4. Chest, abdomen, lower back
If this is new to you, you might want to do only a small part of the exercise for the first few times. A few days for each muscle group will help you to fully respond to the relaxation. Don’t rush through the practice.
When you are ready lie down and take some slow deep breaths. Breath in slowly, hold for a second or two then as you exhale allow yourself to feel your whole body letting go of tension. You might imagine the tension leaving your body like a grey mist with each exhalation.
Concentrate on the first group of muscles, your right hand and arm. Make a fist to tighten the muscles in your hand, continue tightening the muscles all the way up to your bicep, holding as tight as you can. Hold this tension for a count of 10, or longer if you can manage it. Don’t hold your breath during any of these tensing practices.
Now release, saying “Let the tension drain away. My arm and hand is relaxed and limp.” Let your arm and hand go limp, notice the feeling and the warmth in your arm. Feel the difference between your right and left arm. Repeat two times.
Don’t hold your breath, breath in and out slowly and deeply throughout these exercises. Each time you release say the relaxing phrase “Let the tension drain away from…” for each body part.
Now, concentrating on the left hand and arm repeat the exercise. Always notice the feeling of relaxation that you have when releasing the tension.
Follow the same procedure with your right foot, calf, thigh and buttock muscles. One at a time tense these muscles as hard as you can, count to 10 or higher slowly, then release. Pay attention to the different feeling in your left and right sides. Repeat using your left leg starting with your left foot and leg muscles.
Focus then on your shoulder muscles. Shrug your shoulders as high as you can and hold tight, then allowing them to go limp. Feel the difference.
Now concentrate on your head. Frown as hard as you can, hold, then release allowing your forehead to go smooth. Now raise your eyebrows as high as possible, hold then release.
Screw up your eyes, feeling the tension. Hold as before and then relax.
Clench your jaw tightly. Notice the tension throughout, hold, then release, relaxing with slightly parted lips. Feel and compare the difference.
Press your tongue tightly against the roof of your mouth. Hold, then release, again paying attention to the difference between the relaxed and the tense state.
Repeat with your lips, pressing them together and then making a tight “O” with them. Relax. Then make a false smile as wide as you can. Hold then release. Notice the relaxed feeling in all of your head muscles.
Carry out this technique at least once a day or use it to relax before you go to sleep at night.
To learn more about relaxation and sleep read the book e-book Go To Sleep Secrets which is part of the Sleep Sound Program. Click on the link above.